Monster or Master in law?

So I've finally found a 'safe place" for my thoughts, qualms, and all other random things i ponder about on a day to day basis and im hoping that there are other people in this world who share and enjoy reading about my sentiments.

So my first subtle outburst will have to be about my thoughts on erratic, not so emotionally stable monster in laws that we all have the misfortune of dealing with for the sake of our significant others from time to time. Luckily for me, my partner and i have an open platform to communicate when we feel we are being wronged by each others parents "obviously within limits of not offending to the point where you just bash their hearts", after all it’s not easy witnessing your parent maliciously ill-treating your partner nor is it easy hearing your partner say how unhappy they are in the situation.

When more often than not,  I can very well just ignore being ill treated , indirectly scoffed at and just on the whole feeling like I "stole" someone's child...Ive been having a hard time lately with pregnancy hormones peaking....which I know, cannot be an excuse for everything in life but things just get a bit much at times.

Having kids of my own, my aim is to be an emotionally stable behaving parent in law and to give whoever it is that my offspring wishes to commit to, a fair chance of trying to form a relationship with my family without typically giving them a hard time for the sake of giving them a hard time because it’s “part of the initiation process.”

When your kids are lucky to find a partner in life you should rejoice and be happy for them, not spend your time worrying about how things are going to change between you and your offspring.

Its not fair to be nasty to a child who has married into your family purely because you can and especially when you dont mistreat your own kids.

Anyway, this was supposed to be a subtle outburst and not a vulgar rant but i guess thats the FIRST thing you've learnt about me....i have the tendency to be somewhat hormonal and rather emotionally unstable at times , but im not a PARENT IN LAW yet so its fine, heehee, but i figure ive got a few years before I reach that point.

xxx